seriously im really lost for words...
i have never stepped onto someone else'e toes, but i got mine stepped on repeatedly... i would not have cared as much when it was some other people but now... sometimes we are so held back in confessing everything, in trustin someone... im really so tired of all these...
but sometimes the circumstances do not allow us to... what else can i say???
im really tired of explainig, tired of proving myself right, tired of tryin to please everyone, tired of my life bein controlled by others...
how often are explainations dismissed off as excuses....
Sometimes less is more so less explanation may juz be better.. sometimes explain more things get complicated.. but then people who truly know u, love u, even if u dun explain anything, they should know it, feel it..
ReplyDeleteso don't have to try so hard and be nicer to urself!
but then the person got upset wif me due to the pure misunderstandin...
ReplyDeleteden wait for the person to cool down before explaining =) some ppl prefer to be alone to cool down while others prefer to settle it straight away.
ReplyDeletei dun think the person wanna hear me out..
ReplyDeletethe thing is if they believe u.. then the misunderstanding wont happen.. it is only a misunderstanding if they sorta somehow believe that maybe u will do this or say this.. in that case explanations are juz gonna be pointless..
ReplyDeletebut sometimes its emotions that blocks their mind frm tinking rationally.. time tells things.. probably wif enuff time, their head will clear up n realise they prob overreacted to a misunderstanding..
getting misunderstood by someone important to you is realli tormenting.. as thou the heart is bitten into.. but well juz be urself gal.. then perhaps tt someone will finally see u for who u are..
really thanks alot... u know, i really felt better after readin wad u have typed...
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