I believe everybody has been in a situation where quarrels are consistent yet still love each other, in fact, some might have even accepted it as part of their lives.
But nobody loves quarreling or fighting right?
So why still cling on to that drama-rama-ish relationship?
It is because you know all that fightings and shoutings are nothing. You know that you can fight it off or eventually laugh it off. Fights over petty issues aren't gonna break you heart. Hence, you are able to tolerate all that nonsensical arguments. Besides, you can't possibly stay angry forever.
In your heart, you know you guys can fight over anything under the sun but not because of a third party, and that is what all matters. You trust that your partner is not going to cause a quarrel over a third party.
Yes, I have had my heart broken 3 times because of blatant lies, taking my trust for granted and broken promises (all over a girl). I just couldn't understand why they did just that. Oh ya, and one common point, me and each of them seldom quarrel. When we have a huge fight, it's over some girls.
I couldn't emphasize any stronger how much a broken trust can affect me.
I have repeated a few times in my age old posts.
Hence, I prefer fighting and quarreling with him whom I know I can trust, to loving someone with no or little arguments but whom I can't trust.
After all, it is easier to calm yourself down than to mend a broken heart.
Sorry that you have to put up with the angsty me at times
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